On Sunday I had a lady come to my house and spend about 4 hours cleaning. She mostly was in the kitchen and the bathroom.
While she was working I got the office picked up /shredding done, decluttered my nightstands, emptied the last of my moving boxes, cleaned out 5 litter boxes, swept upstairs and down and vacuumed. Oh, also did towels/bedding.
So by the time she left, the upstairs at least was looking pretty good. 
---
I had my first physical therapy appointment today. The PT thinks I strained my rotator cuff. I'll be going 3x a week for the next month, plus two exercises he gave me for at home.
---
DH and I had a rough time of it last week. The closest we've ever gotten to shouting at each other. We agreed to disagree on the issue, but also agreed that we need to take some steps to do better.
One thing we're trying is this online program called Our Relationship.
I've also made an appointment with the EAP for just me to start with, but DH will go too at some point.
We're nearly at 2 years, but if we keep having weeks like last week, we won't make 3. Something has to change because neither of us want that.
---
In consequence of having so many accounts in the attempt to generate spending money ... I made a goof.
I saw my 3rd paycheck go into account A. I went into main account and said to transfer paycheck money from (what I thought) was account A to main account.
It wasn't account A. It was the now defunct not paying 5% anymore account with a balance of $.80.
Cue $30 NSF fee. Cue $15 returned item fee. ARGHH!!
Stupid tax.
I wrote main accounts customer service to suggest having nicknames for accounts instead of just account numbers.
--
I finished my Stepbet on Sunday. I should know by tomorrow how much I won.
I also joined another similar walking bet - 8500steps per day challenge for 2 weeks.
I also joined a Runbet - 18min/mile min which I can totally manage. (Not today with a horrible sinus headache, but by tomorrow I should be able to do it I hope.)
Updates
April 9th, 2018 at 10:20 pm
April 9th, 2018 at 10:26 pm 1523312808
Sorry for the relationship issues, but you are doing the right thing to get help!
April 10th, 2018 at 12:28 am 1523320123
Thanks, I'm hoping it helps.
April 10th, 2018 at 03:13 am 1523330015
Just cleaning 5 cat litter boxex is a big job. I'm glad that having the cleaner was helpful. Hope that your arm,rotator cuff continues to get better. Also,that's good that you are going to be able to talk to someone,and hopefully your husband will too. I think you mentioned that he has trouble witj change? So at first this might bother him, the cleaning etc. But in the long run it"s going to help you Ithink. It doundd like you have alot thst you have been doing. No one person can do everything. M a ybe he's worried that the badement area will be cleaned next,and he will have to move some of his things? Wishing you all the best,and keep the cleaner person of I can put in my two cents.
April 10th, 2018 at 03:17 am 1523330243
April 10th, 2018 at 03:43 am 1523331822
April 10th, 2018 at 10:13 am 1523355228
April 10th, 2018 at 11:46 pm 1523403995