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Name Change Frustrations ... etc.

August 6th, 2016 at 02:46 pm

So I have a Credit Card that gives me 5% back on gas purchases. It was nice to have before when was only purchasing one or two fill ups a month. But now with DH filling up every few days, it is worth almost 3/4 of a tank of gas!

A few weeks ago I tried to start the process of changing my name on the card and getting DH added on to the account (so we each could have a card - right now he has it most of the time, and then gives it to me when I need to fill up.)

First, it was nearly impossible to figure out HOW to start the process. So I wrote to customer service.

A few days later I got an email with a link to a form I needed to print out and send back, along with a scan of my marriage certificate and another form of id.

So I managed to get my scanner function to work again, and scanned in the documents requested.

A few days later I get another email telling me that what I had sent wasn't enough. That I needed to send in a "certified copy of your driver's license." Say what?!

Another couple emails, and it was clarified that yes, they require this, and yes, they know that it is more than most places require - but they are a conservative organization and very careful.

Ugh.

So... yesterday after work I stop my credit union (where I get the 2.5% on checking) and asked about getting my driver's license notarized. Of the two notaries there, neither one had EVER heard of such a thing, and couldn't find any kind of form on the notary's website for NE.

So now I'm waiting for another email back from customer service to tell me if there is a particular form the notary can use, or what else they'd suggest I do!

Have any of you ever heard of such a thing??

If it wasn't for the 5% on gas, I would just forget this card! I guess I could just keep using it with my maiden name ... I still have my old driver's license to prove that was my name at one time.

Ugh.

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Dh's birthday was on Wednesday - the ol' 50. He worked that night, so we celebrated on Thursday. We went out to eat at this nice local Mexican restaurant -Tico's. It's been here in L town since shortly after I was born. Smile Really good food (lots of veg choices) although a bit pricey. Their dessert - Ponzaneita (sp?) is utterly scrumptious, and their chips are addictive. (I don't normally eat the chips at a restaurant, but these looked so different, I had to try them ... ate half a basket!)

Once DH gets to Walmart, he's getting a new electric razor for his birthday. Smile

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I think I've been spending too much money at CVS .. I got a postcard in the mail this last week telling me I was in the "top 4%" ... Then I proceeded to stop there Friday afternoon and spend $23 - after about $30 in a variety of coupon savings and a blanket 15% off. I also got back $8 in ECB. I just need to spend another $7 on P&G products to get another $10 ECB. I'm debating about it ... Smile

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I opened up a new AmEx Charge card last week. Received the card on Tuesday? and went ahead and used it to pay $1k on DHs medical debt. 5 or 6 weeks from now I'll get 25,000 rewards points. They can't be used for cash back, and can't be used for statement credits (unless I use the card charge $250 worth of other budgeted stuff ... that actually work out ..) My other option is gift cards - Amazon might be one of the issuers. My card isn't listed on my account yet, so I haven't been able to explore the options yet (other than what the CSR told me.)

I also opened a new checking account. (DH rolled his eyes when I told him.) All I have to do is have one direct deposit of $500 within 90 days, and have some kind of transaction each month, and I'll get $150.

That's $400 to throw at debt! (eventually ...)

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I've been looking for large container to put change in for DH's boat fund. I'd thought about a used/beat up 5 gallon water jug (like what is used on water dispensers) but couldn't find anything like it for cheap. So yesterday I was at Dollar Tree and I found a 3 gallon container similar in shape to an old water bottle I had. That is now here at home and labeled with "DH's Boat Fund" and I already put in a couple dollars worth of change that's been scattered through out the house.

(As a delivery driver, DH has lots of change floating everywhere. I plan on offering to clean out his cars so I can get all the change out from them .. and hopefully he'll put his change in the jar at night instead of tossing his jeans on the floor and letting the change all go wherever ... Smile

I don't really use cash, so I'll probably just add to it whatever money I find on the ground, etc.

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I don't know if it is just coincidental or if there is something there ... but a few days after I started taking the iron supplements, I also switched from Allegra D to just Allegra. I also stopped taking the cold medicine at night to sleep.

Ever since then, it seems like my allergies have gotten better! I haven't had a sinus headache in weeks! I've been getting slightly better sleep (my average has gone up to 5 1/2 hours! vs. an average of 4 1/2 - 5 hrs.)

So ... is it the iron supplements? The switching from Allegra D to Allegra? Whatever I'm most allergic to, getting less? I wish I knew the answer, but at any rate, I'll take it!

9 Responses to “Name Change Frustrations ... etc.”

  1. Butterscotch Says:
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    When I got married 4 years ago all I had to do was call customer service for all my cards and just tell them my new name. I don't remember having to send any of them anything to verify it. But maybe thugs have changed since 2012? I would call customer service for your card rather than wait on emails. I remember Citi, Amex, Discover all just changing it while I was on the phone with them.

  2. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    That's part of what I said in one of my emails - that I've had NO issues changing my name at multiple financial and governmental places - and it just seems bizarre to me that a CC would require such shenanigans!

  3. Carol Says:
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    I know the "D" (Sudafed)in Allegra D can upset my sleep. Also something in the cold medicine can do the same. Evidently neck and shoulder strain can also cause/ contribute to sinus/ tension headaches. (Learned this just yesterday.) Good luck!
    Years ago, replacing wall to wall carpet in my daughter's room, we found $70.00 in change lying around. (Put it towards dental bill.) Unbelievable... that boat fund will grow.

  4. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    Carol - The thing about the D messing with sleep is something my doctor suggested to me - which is why I switched. I was really nervous about switching - wondering if it was going to make things worse. But so far at least, I'm glad I did!

    Yep, when we were cleaning out DH's apartment, we must have picked up at least $30+ in change. I'm not sure what he did with it though - packed in one of the millions of boxes filling the basement.

  5. creditcardfree Says:
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    I'm not sure how a notary makes the driver's license 'certified', to me it would make it notarized. Very strange. I've heard of of certified birth, marriage and death certificates, which you get from the county. Seems a certified marriage certificate would be more appropriate. At what dollar amount do you make out on the 5% on gas? Or is it unlimited?

    A three gallon container of change is going to be VERY heavy!!

    Glad to hear you are sleeping better!

  6. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    CCF - As far as I know it is unlimited for the 5% on gas. Good question though - will have to research that.

    Maybe I am using the wrong term - and should say they want a notarized copy. My marriage certificate was a certified copy that I emailed!

    Yep, I imagine it will be pretty heavy. Smile
    Thanks, me too. Big Grin

  7. Kiki Says:
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    I'd forgotten when I moved that I'd tossed all my change in baggies. I found it recently and it was just under $200. I will take it to the bank and put it toward my flooring/painting fund.

  8. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    That'll be a nice boost to the fund!

  9. Joan.of.the.Arch Says:
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    Glad your allergies, headaches, and sleep are a bit better. May they all continue to improve. It's really hard to carry on day after day under even just one of those burdens.

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