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July 5th, 2015 at 09:32 pm

On the local FB sales group, sometimes people list houses for sale. I've seen houses on there for anywhere from 94k to 489k. Mostly they are between 110-40k.

On my income it has taken me roughly a year to save about 5k in my EF (the balance was already there, leftover from my moving fund/EF from NM.)

I pay $430/month in rent, plus between $50 - $100 in utilities. I put about 15% of my post-tax income in a ROTH (which doesn't even get close to maxing it out.)

So if I ever want to buy a house and have the payments be something I can manage on my income, I will probably need 40k+ for a downpayment, plus another 10 - 15k for closing costs, House EF/fix up.

At my current savings rate, that might happen ... oh 9 or 10 years from now? And that's assuming that the simple, not fancy houses (1000sq ft w/basement home for $138k type places) will not have gone way up in price.

And I'll probably be needing another car about that time too ...

I don't make minimum wage - but maybe close to 2x minimum wage. I don't have much in the way of extravagances - no cable tv, watch my pennies. I do have my iPhone and my Internet (which I cringe paying for - so expensive!) I'm also only supporting myself and my cat.

So ... how do people with families do it? How do they buy houses???

I was looking at the calculator for the 138k house, assuming a 20k down payment at 4.5% interest. My payment would be something like $900/month!! No way on God's green earth I could afford that and still save for retirement, or for car replacement, or have any extra left for once in a while vacations, or for home repairs ...

I guess it kind of makes me a bit discouraged. I know, I know ... I could get a teaching job making twice what I make here (or close to it.) But as stressful as the bus job is sometimes, it is only 40 hours a week and I'm done. Teaching .... just not the case. Plus a WHOLE nother level of stress.

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PS - I have an ad for Sam's Club below. They just have to be advertising that they have Nutella on sale this month. Note to Laura - DO NOT ENTER Sam's Club this month.

26 Responses to “Sometimes I wonder ..”

  1. creditcardfree Says:
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    Hmm. Closing costs you are estimating seem really high! Many people put their house before their retirement, save less for retirement, take out loans for cars, and many do not put down 20%...we have never done that ourselves actually. And families often have two people working!

    If I were in your situation I'd consider and run numbers for other scenarios where you maybe save less for retirement for a period of time, save less for a down payment and consider increasing your income. Yes, there are jobs for call centers, insurance specifically, that would pay likely pay more.

  2. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    CCF - Thanks Smile I just don't know that a call center would be the place for me - the part I hate the most about my current job is being on the phone. Would insurance call centers have really good benefits? I've got some amazing benes here.

    For me I guess I'm kind of torn. I desperately want out of the rat race, want to retire as early as humanly possible. At the same time though when I see these houses for sale and think about how amazing it would feel to be a home owner .. but then I think of the reality of the numbers, and just don't see how I'll be able to do both. At least not on my income alone.

    The 10k is closing costs, but also money for curtains, any minor fix ups that might be needed, furnishings, etc., etc., etc. The houses in the 130s range are older homes ...

  3. scfr Says:
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    Would a condo be more attainable? Would you consider condo living?

  4. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    Maybe if it had a yard where I could put in a garden and a porch for my porch swing. Those are the two things I want most in a house. Bay windows for window seat reading are my third thing I want most ... Don't know if condos have that kind of stuff. Also not sure if there are condos here - would have to check that.

  5. scfr Says:
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    Unless you have your heart set on a hanging swing, there are sliding benches that have the movement of a swing that you could set out on a patio. We had one at our old house that was really comfortable. The garden would be more problematic, especially if you don't want to container garden. Any pea patches (shared community gardens) in the area?

  6. scfr Says:
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    Oh sorry! I just Googled and apparently P-patch is a term that is specific to the Seattle area. (Our old neighborhood had one.)

  7. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    I really want the porch swing, but could live with a gliding swing. Container gardening would be okay.... Not sure if we have community gardens here.

  8. creditcardfree Says:
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    I don't know about the benefits, but the clientele you would be interacting with at an insurance company would be entirely different in my opinion. And often, you can work your way up the chain where you aren't on the phone as much or rarely depending on the work. I'd also look at the Universities there.

    I'm sure there are condos there somewhere. There are really small homes around there you might be able to get for less. Would you consider a roommate?

  9. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    I'd be happy with a small home (at least 600 sq ft) as long as I could have my porch swing and garden! Smile I also want it to be in at least a ... decent neighborhood.

    I could live with a roommate, although that would probably mean needing to hire a housekeeper/cleaner so I wouldn't drive them nuts with my err... housekeeping. Smile
    People calling into insurance call centers don't use foul language or complain or just call to ramble on about something or the other? Smile But no really, I will look into it. If the benefits are anywhere close AND the pay is a lot better .. then maybe I could switch (or at least look into the possibility.)

  10. Kiki Says:
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    Laura-look into the down payment assistance programs offered by the state. For Nebraska it look similar to the program in CA :
    http://nifa.org/programs/programs.html?pi=428&search_var=prog&prog_name_sent=single+family

    The programs have silent seconds or grant money given to a hoeme buyer. It sometimes is income dependent but in CA a single person, no kids, can have a salary up to $84k and still get 5% down pay assistance. And 20% is nice but loans can start with as little as 3% (but sometimes permanent PMI and would need to be refinanced to get rid of PMI). There are also USDA loan for home and it does not mean you need to be a farmer or has property just that it is purchased in a specific mapped area-there are areas all over.

    There are many ways to get help. Talk to the Nebraska organization and a mortgge broker to learn more about your options. It is possible to buy a home just do some more research!

  11. VS_ozgirl Says:
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    One crucial thing to remember is that over time (generally) property value increases, wage earnings increase, rent payments increase while mortgage payments decrease. (Of course you can choose to pay more but the amount required to pay decreases while your rental payments increase over time due to inflation). When my husband and I bought our house the mortgage payment was 25% of our combined wage while now nearly 15 years later the mortgage payments are now 14% of our combined wage. Our mortgage payments are lower than the lowest rent for a house you can get in our area and our house is better. Mortgage payments decrease the debt on the house while inflation over time increases your wages, so while it's hard for the first few years it doesn't stay hard. And once you retire you would have a paid off property- no need to move around or pay rent. It depends on what you really want, whether it's to retire early and have a rental payment or choose a property that you would like to be in long term that you own and possibly change your retirement plans.

  12. CB in the City Says:
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    Look around for a double, or duplex, too. You could have the porch and garden, but it wouldn't be quite as expensive as a house. Also, as CCF pointed out, while it's prudent to save for a 20% down payment plus closing costs, many people don't do that. I, for one, got my first house by borrowing from my 403b and putting 10% down (plus sweat equity). Not really recommended by the financial experts, but I got a house when I needed it (while my boys were young) and I have come out all right. If you are a good money manager, I think, you can do things that are considered a little risky, because you are not going to do all that other silly stuff that so many people take for granted, like splurging for cars and vacations.

  13. Ima saver Says:
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    Laura, I agree it is very difficult for the young, first time home buyer. That is why we are financing the house we built for this young couple. The home is $253,000, a little high for a first time home buyer.
    But it has 3 bedrooms, 3 1/2 baths, family room, laundry room, garage, mountain view and on a creek. They are putting down 5%.
    Closing costs were estimated at $7000 thru the bank, but I think now that i am financing, they will be less than 1/2 that. (I will let everyone know) I am paying the closing costs because the couple has to stretch to come up with 5% ($12,500) I am holding the mortgage at 4 1/2 % for 25 years.
    Maybe you could find someone to hold the mortgage.
    It is nice to get a brand new house with No fixer up problems.

  14. Joan.of.the.Arch Says:
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    Ah, Laura, I want you to have a house with a garden, a porch, and a porch swing, too! Your longing touches my heart, I guess because I also love my garden and my porch swing! I often say that my porch swing is one of the best purchases I ever made. Sitting out there with friends and family, noting the violets across the street in April, the irises blooming in May, the fireflies in June, the trees blooming in July, the crickets chirping in August, the grass trying to grow over the sidewalk in September, the yellow & brown leaves on the cottonwood trees in October....

  15. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    Thanks everyone for your thoughts/suggestions. I really do appreciate them all.

  16. Petunia 100 Says:
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    You have lived so many places. Are you sure you want to stay put where you are? It's not so easy (or cheap) to get out of a house, so be sure you are living in the area you want to live before you buy something.

    I think it can make a great deal of sense to buy without 20% down in some situations. Renting for 9 or 10 years while saving up a down payment costs more than PMI.

  17. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    Petunia - That is a good point. I am SO tired of moving. I like it here for the most part - don't know if I'd have any easier time of it finding friends, etc. somewhere else. So ... I think I'm probably here to stay. Although I probably should give it a few more years to be really sure before making a big purchase like a house. I'd want a lot more in savings than I have now, even if I didn't wait til I had 20% for a downpayment.

  18. LivingAlmostLarge Says:
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    We bought with 10% down the first time. It was tight but the payment was less than rent. $165k for 1 bd 500 sq ft Condo. Rent at that time we were paying $1200 so it made sense to buy. Look for a deal and do it if you are sure you will stay put

  19. Nika Says:
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    I can share the desire for a garden or nice outdoor space where we could grill and have family dinners (we have an enclosed terrace, can drink our coffees and have breakfast, but not possible to grill or garden). We need to be making several million a year to be able to mortgage a townhouse (in Manhattan I would guess 20 mil?) In Bronx, houses in our area are from 1.7 to 4 for average, and of course, some nicer houses are way higher than that.

    So to put things in perspective, many people who make far more, still have far less. So what do we do? What we can. We live in our co-op apartment, paying off mortgage and building equity, and later, if we ever decide to move some place else, we could sell and apply that equity to buy a house with land somewhere. At least we will have that option. Or, if we put over 500K downpayment, perhaps move into a bigger apartment in Bronx (or a much smaller one on Manhattan). Sounds crazy, but no matter how many times you call it crazy, reality is not going away. *sigh* But in general, I think the goal is to be in a better financial position as years pass.

  20. Tabs Says:
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    I think CCF nailed it on her first comment. Sadly, people put off saving for retirement over paying for a mortgage (or rent). Later on, they then consider reverse mortgages, HELOCs, or just selling and downsizing their house, knowing that their house is most likely going to build some equity.

    I don't really agree with this idea, but a lot of people I know around me does just that. The bottom line is, having a house is expensive no matter what you do.

    It's also why I have looked into admittedly fairly extreme methods of avoiding ever having a mortgage, such as
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    vandwelling. Hey, doesn't hurt to look into things, right?

  21. FrugalTexan75 Says:
    1436628455

    Thanks everyone Smile
    As much as I do want a house, I do also want to wait a few years to make SURE I am settled here (as well as to see what actually happens in the future with NE.)

    In the meantime I'll probably continue my savings as is, although may increase my ROTH savings. I figure when the time comes where I truly feel ready/truly settled, I can always take money out of my ROTH without tax consequences if necessary. I'll be getting a raise (cost of living/union contract renegotiation) in August which I think goes into effect in September - so will probably bump my ROTH by $50/month.

    I will definitely keep my eye out for other job opportunities, however I have to be here for 3 years to be 100% vested. My employer puts in 9% of my salary per paycheck into the retirement plan, and I put in 7% (mandatory - not sure if this can be increased or not. So that would be a lot of money to walk away from if I left before 3 years (not sure if it is 3 years total, or 3 years from the time the plan started -which makes more sense.)

  22. Kiki Says:
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    Laura are you working for a city or county municipality? The benefits including retirement may not change to much and vesting is with the whole city organization not just your bus company. Worth looking for a job that pays more? You've been there for a year now or almost?

  23. FrugalTexan75 Says:
    1436647897

    Kiki,

    It is a city job. Yes, I'll have been there a 1 year as of August 4. I do look at the job listings for the city each week in case something comes up that looks like a *really* good fit for me. I wouldn't want to apply to something without being pretty sure I could get it, when the info might get back to my boss. I really do like my boss, but I think she'd understand if I left for better money or something more interesting. If I found something like that, then I'd go for it. Otherwise I will wait til the 3 years/vested unless something *extraordinary* comes up - pay/benefits/interesting/rewarding which would make losing the vested amount worth it.

  24. My English Castle Says:
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    I think a condo or a townhouse--and you do need a swing and some plants in pots. It sounds so nice for you.

  25. PatientSaver Says:
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    I am glad you plan to wait a few more years at least before making any final decision to put down roots. I have often found...heck, very often....that things I thought I could not do without were really not so important after I had purchased them and a period of time had gone by. We are often beguiled by magical pictures and images we see in so-called shelter magazines that can very effectively paint a picture of a lifestyle we long for.

    I think the roommate and condo ideas are good ones, and I think you could satisfy your longings now with container gardening. I may go back to that myself even though i have an acre and a half here. It's just becoming too much to maintain.

  26. PatientSaver Says:
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    The thing is, that even with a small house (my own is just 1650 sf) you still have all the work of a larger home but on a smaller scale. You still have to pay for utilities, property taxes, maintenance, etc. etc. Sometimes it's the same hassles even though your house may be 1200 sf as compared to 3000 sf.

    A good metaphor would be packing to go away on a camping trip. Whether you go for 2 days or 2 weeks, you still have to pack all the same essentials, like the tent, TP, flashlight, sleeping bags, etc.

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