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I'd Like Your Opinions Please; groceries, etc.

December 11th, 2009 at 11:03 pm

So ... this morning as I was getting ready to leave to head off to work, I managed to crack the toilet seat. (go ahead and laugh manically here - I did, silently.)

I left a note saying what happened and asking if landlady would like me to get a new one, or if she wanted me to just give her whatever an equivalent one would cost. (I didn't use the word equivalent ... I guess I kind of thought that would be understood.)

I got home today and asked if she'd seen my note. She told me that she had, and that she'd gone ahead and bought one at Wal-Mart for $20.

As she said this, I was thinking that sounded like a lot of money for a toilet seat. Then she told me, "They had toilet seats from $5 all the way up to $70. So I decided to get one near the middle in quality." She also told me that if I couldn't afford the $20, to not worry about it.

I was the one who broke it, so I feel like I should pay for at least part of it. I'm not so sure that I should have to pay for an upgraded version though. Am I being cheap? Is $10 a fair amount, or should I just bite the bullet and give her the full $20?
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I stopped by the bank today and got out my $40 for groceries/misc. + I decided to take out an extra $20 to treat myself to something(s) special for my birthday (15th).

I'm not sure exactly what I want to do yet - maybe go to a first run movie and eat out at IHOP? Or go to a movie at the Studio Movie Grill and get a grilled cheese + dessert? Get a pedicure before heading out to CA (although with the weather they're having, not so sure I'll be baring my feet all that much)? Get a new pair of jeans? Or maybe just use part of it now, and save the rest for spending money on my trip... (Can you tell what are some of the things I'm really missing being able to do?? Not that I did any of them often, but it sure was nice to be able to do it once in a while without having to think about it *too* hard.)

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I didn't really have much I had to get for groceries today. I just needed enough to get through for the next 8 days (really 7 - I'm going to be at my mom's Tuesday for supper - she's making a brownie cake for me! Yum!- and also Wednesday for breakfast and lunch).

I was really wanting some marshmallows for my hot cocoa last weekend, but I'd already done my shopping for the week. So today I was looking at the marshmallows and saw the store brand for $.92 (minis). But then I saw a new product which intrigued me. A bag of chocolate coated marshmallows for $1.00. I *almost* bought those instead. But then the frugalite in me said that there was only enough for two cups of cocoa, while the other bag had enough for at least 10, and for less money.

So, anyway, my groceries today totaled: $17.38.

I also put some change in the bell ringer's thing - not sure how much, maybe $1.xx.

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I am now completely finished with two of my classes. On Sunday I'll be taking a 3-hour practice exam, and be finished with the third class.

Today I picked up from the library 5 books on CD which are on the book list for my Children's Lit class next semester, plus another book on the list. I can only check out 5 audiobooks at a time, so I'm planning on getting them loaded onto my iPhone this weekend, and then getting 5 more. (I found a total of 15 audiobooks from the list.)

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I've been really trying to work on certain ... words ... in my vocabulary. 99% of the people who know me probably have never ever heard me mutter them out loud. But *I* hear myself mutter them, not to mention think them. I feel for me, especially as I'm getting older, those words are an immature response to situations or descriptions. (Not passing judgment on anyone else - this is *just* for me.)

So, I've been doing a lot of thinking. There's a particular forum on Delphi which I have slightly participated in, but read very regularly since 2004. It mostly consists of women. The frequent posters can be very funny - and I find myself frequently laughing out loud at some of the things they post. They also can be very caring, rallying behind posters who are in some trouble or another (whom they're able to verify as a real situation). However, they have a tendency to use certain words a lot. And, they can be quite biting and critical and sarcastic.

I'm debating on whether I should continue to read there. If I fill my mind with some of the topics (and words they use) there, how am I going to be able to stop myself from thinking/muttering some of those same words/sarcastic attitudes?

However, I need to find something else to fill my time that I've spent there. Part of it maybe I can use to work on memorizing scripture. I'm not sure though where I can find a good, *clean* source of humor though. Any suggestions?
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Oh, for any of you who are fans of Goldie Hawn or Chevy Chase. Last night I watched (from Netflix Instant) the movie "Foul Play." If I read correctly, it was the first big part Chevy Chase had in a movie.
It's a comedy/murder mystery somewhat similar to Alfred Hitchcock style. It was really funny - Goldie plays a librarian. Smile Chevy plays the detective who protects her from ... the Albino; the Dwarf; and Scarface. Big Grin Oh, and I *loved* the Johnny Tidbits character - comedic gold!

It's set in the 70's. I think Goldie is sporting a Farrah Fawcett (sp?) do.

10 Responses to “I'd Like Your Opinions Please; groceries, etc.”

  1. monkeymama Says:
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    I think I'd just suck it up - assuming it isn't so cheap as to crack again??? That was just my thought. Maybe a nicer one will be better?

  2. frugaltexan75 Says:
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    You're probably right. I should just go ahead and bite the bullet on this one. Sigh. I think I knew the right thing to do already, but just hate to put out that much money for a *toilet seat*! (especially when I'm only going to have maybe 5 or 6 months use out of it)

  3. creditcardfree Says:
    1260574206

    Hmm...I was going to agree with the $10! Happy Birthday in case I don't "talk" to you on your day.

  4. wowitsawonderfullife Says:
    1260574291

    Yup, I think I'd pay the $20. She might only take half but then the balls in her court.

  5. frugaltexan75 Says:
    1260575669

    Thanks CCF Smile
    Thanks Wow - I'm pretty sure she'll take the whole $20, but maybe not.

  6. CouponAddict Says:
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    I would pay the $20 since by her picking it up she saved you a trip to buy it. Maybe the $20 one was the closest to the same quality.

    I would go to Wal-Mart to view the toliet seats though; by looking over the selection you cansee if that is the case that way you dont feel she has taken advantage of you, and if after looking over the selection you think the same quality toliet was $15.88 you can offer $15.88.

  7. lizajane Says:
    1260598559

    Reminds me of the time I sat down and the toilet itself broke! Boy, it took awhile for the jokes about that one to subside!!

    I'd probably just do the $20 and move on. Be glad she didn't go for the $70 version....I'll have to look next time I go to Walmart to see what on earth would make a toilet seat worth $70. I mean, I have seen nice ones with carvings in the lid and all that, but it's not like you get to sit and admire the fine artwork or anything.

  8. campfrugal Says:
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    IMO, you could pay her the $20, get the seat and ask her for the receipt and go exchange it yourself, if you feel you would like a cheaper version. You never know, it might not fit anyway, cause there are so many different kinds of toilet seats. Good Luck.

  9. frugaltexan75 Says:
    1260630903

    Thanks everyone. I decided to go ahead and just give her the $20. I think though that next time something like this happens, I'm going to go ahead and get a replacement so I can control the end costs better. (hopefully there won't be a next time ... but this proves that freak accidents do happen)

    Lizajane - the $70 toilet had an automatic warming function + possibly a bidet .. but I kind of stopped listening when she said $70 toilet seat.

  10. Lisa Says:
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    If you didn't know the landlord/lady so well, it could have been much more expensive, so $20 is fair, I think. Imagine you were still in the apartment. They would have to send the maintenance man out, and they might charge more.

    Hmm... warming function? That COULD be worth it! Wink

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